You can never receive what you cannot see yourself receiving, for everything comes through you, not to you.
We know that our thoughts form our future. And if we want to change our future we must change our habits, behaviours and thoughts now at this moment.
You need to be aware of the thoughts and beliefs you have accumulated over time, that hinder you receiving what you want instead of what you are getting currently.
So here you need to be ruthlessly honest with yourself.
The Truth can hurt.
You may not want to admit to yourself what is really going on. Why you are unhappy in your job, your marriage, your body etc. There usually are many factors involved, and nothing seems as easy and simple as it actually is.
We are not looking to blame ourselves here or fall into the trap of guilt and ‘should have‘s‘, all we want is to become aware of where we are at. Admitting the truth to ourselves is crucial to be able to change our future.
Time to forgive.
We need to let go of these thoughts and the question of ‘why we are where we are’. Just simply draw a line beneath it and say ‘enough is enough, I want to change this now!’
Learn to forgive yourself and others.
Resentment and anger only carry this on but won’t help you.
Many people think that it is enough if they don’t show anger and control their temper. But this is not the case. The vibration goes out just the same.
Picture this: You have clutter on your dining table and to clear it you stuff everything into one drawer. The clutter is still there, only now you cannot see it.
You want to come to a place where the situation does not trigger your emotions anymore. This may take time and you may want to seek help. In coaching, we work a lot on forgiveness and looking at situations from different perspectives, that allow new viewpoints and make space to let go of the resentment and the anger.
Our desires can only be obtained by non-resistance.
Flow and not force. You need to let go of the outcome. This is the next crucial part. And in my experience one of the most difficult ones. We tend to hang on to the preferred outcome, especially if it is about something that we really want to achieve.
Flowing and not forcing is about knowing what we want, but not be so concerned about how and when we will receive it.
Patience and Faith.
Think back to a situation when you received something at a time you really didn‘t expect it.
When you examine the situation, you may notice that you had wanted it to happen in the past, you may just have forgotten about it.
A business women really wanted a project to come to fruition, but it didn’t work out, which frustrated her and let her feel angry – a different project came in and she became so busy that she had no longer time to think about the first one.
A few months later the deal came through spontaneously. She had momentarily forgotten about it, which meant she practised non- resistance to how it could come through.
If it is meant for you it will not pass you.
Have faith in this statement.
I work with a lot of people who love ‘But If’s‘, like but if this doesn‘t work… or, but if I don‘t achieve this…
or … But it was my dream forever.
The thing is that sometimes what was our dream yesterday, doesn’t suit our tomorrow. Trust your intuition in this, if what you want feels good in your body (not your mind) when you think about it, then it is meant to happen – practice the steps I mentioned above.
However, if you are not sure or if you think the desire is coming from your head or out of habit, then it may not be as important for your path, – let it go and let something even better take its place.
Affirm: I am wide awake to my good. I never miss a blessing.
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